Hey guys today we’re going to talk about three ways to trigger sexual attraction when you‘re on a first date. Okay so the three ways to trigger sexual attraction if there’s any possibility of sexual attraction because it’s not guaranteed in every single situation, sorry that’s the reality, but if you want the best chance of being able to trigger some form of sexual attraction if there is a possibility of it are: eye contact, touch, and tone of voice. Okay so we’re going to go over this really quickly. Eye contact, when you can maintain and hold eye contact for longer than what is normally comfortable it tends to feel more intimate because we don’t hold eye contact with people unless we are either familiar with them or bumping nasties.
So if you can maintain eye contact a little bit longer than you normally would then that will help trigger intimacy at the very least So the second thing is touch. Normally we don’t touch strangers unless we want to go to jail but we do hug our friends or family if we’re touchy feely types or if we’ve worked our way to that stage of our relationship and, of course, we touch our lover. This is another way to trigger sexual attraction, or at least sexual tension, in a small way and you have to make sure that you touch the other person appropriately.
In other words touch them where you would touch your grandmother. So you can touch them on their forearm or their hand or the small of their back, anywhere where you would actually touch your grandmother because then it’s appropriate but it’s still crossing the touch barrier which goes into the personal space and the realm of intimacy. And the third thing is tone.
So, and voice actually, so when you are speaking with someone that you are attracted to and you want them to be attracted back to you then you’ve got to change your tone from someone that is a friend or relative to someone that you’re attracted to, and the easiest way to do this is to slow your words down and lower your tone, drag things out a little bit because that’s sexy. So, that was a little example and yes it feels a little weird at first but go ahead go practice in the mirror, slow your voice down, lower the the pitch of your voice a little bit because just imagine someone’s gonna whisper something in your ear, if they talk really high and squeaky is that a turn-on? Probably not, but if they lower their tone a bit and slow their words down it’s gonna get a lot sexier.
All right, hope this helped and if you have any questions or comments, write them in the comments below. Thanks for watching.