ASKING MY CRUSH TO FLY TO PARIS FOR DREAM DATE

ASKING MY CRUSH TO FLY TO PARIS FOR DREAM DATE Dating

Everyone is afraid of something. A fear that they’ve either never dared to face or something to happen to them in the past that instilled the fear inside of them. To me strangely enough, I’m terrified of commitment and opening up to any girl that I date. I was heartbroken a few years ago after opening up to someone for the first time in my life and it left me insecure and closed off for years. Even just admitting this right now on camera is so.. is so strange to me.

It’s way too real. But if this post can inspire some of you who might have gone through a heartbreak or are closed off for whatever reason and it’s affecting your personal lives, then it’s totally worth it. So let’s get back to this post. A few months ago for the first time in four years, I met someone who made me feel totally different. She laughed at my stupid jokes and gave me space to express myself like nobody had before.

So a few days after we landed in Europe, Matt and Ammar told me this. You should ask her if she wants to come out to Paris to go on a second date with you. And I don’t think I felt a moment of discomfort that was more intense than this since we started Yes Theory. But if there’s one thing that I’ve learned on this journey with Yes Theory, it’s that you can’t run away from your fears forever. So I went for it.

If she says yes to this she’s pretty… pretty freaking cool. Lana: Hello? Hi! Lana: Hi How are you?

Lana: Good, just getting ready for work. I have a… a suggestion or a proposal for something. Lana: Okay How would you feel if I flew you out to Paris for a second date… in like two weeks? Lana: *chuckles* For real?

For real. Lana: Well, I’ll have to check with work but yeah, I would totally be down. Really? Lana: Yeah, for sure. *whooing and clapping in the background* So I gotta get planning. I’m a little nervous.

Wait, I’m very nervous. Matt: Alright, this man is freaking out. She’s literally meeting my family and all of you guys being in my hometown like I’ve only met her a few times. And she’s coming in this environment that’s very familiar to me and completely different for her.

I’m just like anxious that she’s gonna arrive, and it’s gonna be weird, or you guys aren’t gonna like her or my parents… It’s just weird. Ammar: You’ll be fine, my man!

I promise. You’re gonna make the best out of it. Ammar: Damn How do you feel? Alright Ammar: Bye!

Thomas hasn’t really said anything all morning. I think he’s getting in his own head. I’ve known him for two and a half years, and what we’re doing right now is literally his biggest fear. I’m anxious now, goddammit!

F**k you, Thomas! Say something, Thomas! Say something!

Let’s go through this brain of yours right now. Nothing, I’m fine! I just want the moment to be here. Is this too big?

The music in the background is perfect! Goddammit *Thomas nervously laughs* Where do you guys wanna go today? *laughs* This is Captain Ammar. The weather outside’s pretty good.

What do you want to do? Where do you want to go? Are we going somewhere, for real? You just say and I’ll take you! Let’s at least drive through Paris.

Yeah, yeah for sure! Alright. To Paris we go!

First train ride in Paris! As you see the map of Paris, for some reason I have an Australian accent. So we’re gonna stop at [French location name] What do you want to see while we’re here? Everything You have to try the snails! I’ll order a plate of snails and you’ll try one of them.

Have you ever eaten snails? Yeah, it’s really good. It comes with pesto. Oh my god…

Yes, we’re doing it. I’ll try a little. Yeah, try a little.

Everyone is afraid of something. A fear that they’ve either never dared to face or something to happen to them in the past that instilled the fear inside of them. To me strangely enough, I’m terrified of commitment and opening up to any girl that I date. I was heartbroken a few years ago after opening up to someone for the first time in my life and it left me insecure and closed off for years. Even just admitting this right now on camera is so.. is so strange to me.

It’s way too real. But if this post can inspire some of you who might have gone through a heartbreak or are closed off for whatever reason and it’s affecting your personal lives, then it’s totally worth it. So let’s get back to this post. A few months ago for the first time in four years, I met someone who made me feel totally different. She laughed at my stupid jokes and gave me space to express myself like nobody had before.

So a few days after we landed in Europe, Matt and Ammar told me this. You should ask her if she wants to come out to Paris to go on a second date with you. And I don’t think I felt a moment of discomfort that was more intense than this since we started Yes Theory. But if there’s one thing that I’ve learned on this journey with Yes Theory, it’s that you can’t run away from your fears forever. So I went for it.

If she says yes to this she’s pretty… pretty freaking cool. Lana: Hello? Hi! Lana: Hi How are you?

Lana: Good, just getting ready for work. I have a… a suggestion or a proposal for something. Lana: Okay How would you feel if I flew you out to Paris for a second date… in like two weeks? Lana: *chuckles* For real?

For real. Lana: Well, I’ll have to check with work but yeah, I would totally be down. Really? Lana: Yeah, for sure. *whooing and clapping in the background* So I gotta get planning. I’m a little nervous.

Wait, I’m very nervous. Matt: Alright, this man is freaking out. She’s literally meeting my family and all of you guys being in my hometown like I’ve only met her a few times. And she’s coming in this environment that’s very familiar to me and completely different for her.

ASKING MY CRUSH TO FLY TO PARIS FOR DREAM DATE Dating

I’m just like anxious that she’s gonna arrive, and it’s gonna be weird, or you guys aren’t gonna like her or my parents… It’s just weird. Ammar: You’ll be fine, my man!

I promise. You’re gonna make the best out of it. Ammar: Damn How do you feel? Alright Ammar: Bye!

Thomas hasn’t really said anything all morning. I think he’s getting in his own head. I’ve known him for two and a half years, and what we’re doing right now is literally his biggest fear. I’m anxious now, goddammit!

F**k you, Thomas! Say something, Thomas! Say something!

Let’s go through this brain of yours right now. Nothing, I’m fine! I just want the moment to be here. Is this too big?

The music in the background is perfect! Goddammit *Thomas nervously laughs* Where do you guys wanna go today? *laughs* This is Captain Ammar. The weather outside’s pretty good.

What do you want to do? Where do you want to go? Are we going somewhere, for real? You just say and I’ll take you! Let’s at least drive through Paris.

Yeah, yeah for sure! Alright. To Paris we go!

First train ride in Paris! As you see the map of Paris, for some reason I have an Australian accent. So we’re gonna stop at [French location name] What do you want to see while we’re here? Everything You have to try the snails! I’ll order a plate of snails and you’ll try one of them.

Have you ever eaten snails? Yeah, it’s really good. It comes with pesto. Oh my god…

Yes, we’re doing it. I’ll try a little. Yeah, try a little.

Oh my god, I can’t even believe I’m saying that. I mean, it’s probably good. It’s just the thought, thinking that it’s a snail, you know? feel my heart right now. It’s like pounding out of my chest.

I’m just postponing it. We should try a full one together. Ammar: Between you and me, what’s the annoying thing about Thomas? Like, when he’s hangry.

What’s the best thing about Thomas? *laughs* So, for day two and as the next step in our Parisian tour, we’re going to the Louvre. Wow All of this Thomas: Very nice, very nice man. He’s so disappointed, look. Thomas: He’s like “What the f**k?!

Come on man. Why is my penis all twisted?” Mona Lisa! We’ve found it!

It’s so pretty! It’s way bigger than I thought. Alright, we can go home now. (unintelligible) Ammar: *laughs* what just happened? I just found out his name isn’t even Thomas. It’s Carl Annar Thomas I’m leaving.

Wait, wait a minute, wait a minute! Ammar: Do you want to go out with a guy named Carl?! Right?

Let’s go! *Romantic Polka Music* Please don’t call me Carl. Are you ready for where we’re going next? I don’t know cause I don’t know where we’re going. There’s one thing we haven’t done proper yet, the proper French dessert.

And we happen to have a family friend who is the number one pastry chef in the world. We got some for Ammar too. Oh my god, I said for three people!

Oh my god, are you freaking serious? Wait, we have to like go home now! This is so much!

I’ll take this, bye! *laughs* This is the best thing so far. I agree. Can Thomas, Lana, and I come to your apartment and eat some of the best chocolates in the world? Alright, peace. Ammar: hi, fam!!

My whole family is right there. *Ammar laughs* Oh my gosh, it looks like our wedding or something. *laughs* It kinda…like…yeah *Ammar laughs* It’s so soft. Let’s go sit Oh my god… She has no idea what’s in this hat. You should put your hand in and then take it out.

No no no Do you swear it’s not alive? Yeah, I swear it’s not alive. This is my favorite chocolate [unintelligible] I mean this is better than the Eiffel Tower. *laughs* Alright, so we’re celebrating New Year’s the very French way. Okay Yeah like, be romantic. *laughs* So we’re celebrating– We’re hosting a show here Ah, sorry! *Ammar laughs* No, sorry!

You didn’t do anything wrong! This year we’re gonna do New Year’s the French, authentic way which is by sharing seafood platters with your best friends. It’s beautiful! *laughs* Say another nice thing, I’ll double it 40! This is amazing!

Hold on, I’ll give it to you later. *laughs* One minute! One minute! 10 9 3 2 1 Happy New Year!

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