Baby Boomer Dating Tips!!! Writing Great Online Dating Profiles For Women!!!

Baby Boomer Dating Tips!!! Writing Great Online Dating Profiles For Women!!! Online Dating

Are you having trouble writing your online dating profile? Tune in today for some great tips on presenting an engaging you! Welcome back to 2nd Act TV. We’re continuing our conversation with Sandy Weiner, Sandy welcome back ! Thanks!

In our first two segments we’ve covered you know how to choose the right site and lots of great information on pictures. Next is what do we put out there about ourselves? What do we write? I know there’s a big issue with just being honest and sincere. Yeah, so first of all don’t lie.

I know a lot of people lie about their age. And so there’s the jury’s out on this one. I don’t advocate for lying about anything!

Some people do it for search purposes and so if you do that then be honest in your profile and say, you know, my, you know, maybe my biological age of my physical age or not the same, you know and so I you know I’m four years younger or older, whatever it is. The other thing is you don’t want to list a whole bunch of adjectives. And this is one of the biggest problems. So I’m attractive, I’m young, I’m this, I’m young at heart, I love you know walks on the beach, love you know the little black dress and the pair of jeans just as comfortable, like everybody says the same freaking thing and there are cliches. They don’t tell anything, even saying I’m creative?

I don’t know what that means to you because I don’t know you. So if you’re going to take the five adjectives that describe you write them down and then tell a little story about each one. So like a one-line story. How are you creative?

So I love painting furniture in a whimsical, in whimsical patterns because I’m very playful, you know something like that. Now you’re describing how you’re creative. And another way I’m creative is I like to bake crazy cakes for people’s birthdays. So now you’re showing not only do you like to bake but also you like to give people something, you like to celebrate people.

So you use the word “because” you know the word because will tell people about your values, about your heart. The reason why you do something is really important. So two people can like to travel but one likes to travel off the beaten path and go crazy no plans. Another one is regimented and will only go on, you know, organized tours and you know stuff like that, or five-star hotels and other one will rough it would go camping.

It tells a lot about who you are. Keep it positive. Keep it, keep a little mystery because you want somebody to ask questions. A little provocative, a little flirty, and then leave a call to action at the end. You know, if this resonates for you I’d love to hear from you, and can’t wait to hear your voice.

So that’s the essay, and and besides the essay there are other things to fill out. So answer as many questions as you can. OK Cupid has like hundreds and hundreds of questions, the more you answer the better you’re gonna match with somebody. Also geographically open up your preferences as much as you can wherever you can.

Know your must-haves, know what you absolutely will not compromise on, do not ever compromise on those things, but everything else should be flexible. You know, and I see people just narrowing down their opportunities because they’re so inflexible about the wrong things. So, so geography. Height, you know please don’t just look for six foot tall men, I mean this is this is one of the biggest disservices we can do to men is to look for one type, because there are a lot of men who are you know five-foot-six who are amazing men and when you’re in bed and you’re horizontal it doesn’t matter how tall you are.

That’s that’s very true, exactly, one of the things that I know in terms of again writing that I just thought about when you were talking that could turn me off is if there were lots of spelling errors or grammatical errors. Yeah check your spelling, yup. So I that was like no, you either are not paying attention this doesn’t mean anything to you, or you really you know, you’re not somebody I want to meet. I mean I value, you know, for me personally I value education.

Right so I will say it just you know that there are people who have learning issues, who are really really smart and can’t write. And you gotta, you gotta cut some slack to men, men have to cut slack to women, I mean we tend to write each other off very very quickly. So if you did get in touch with a man and found that he is illiterate, then you write him off, but I have seen many many bright people who just can’t spell. I agree with you, that’s why, I guess my point was don’t let that throw you out to somebody like me who does pay attention when it, when it necessarily doesn’t have to! Yeah.

It’s an easy fix, I thought. Yeah be careful, I mean on your end, be careful for sure. I mean I go over whatever I write a hundred times, you know, it’s just every word matters.

Are you having trouble writing your online dating profile? Tune in today for some great tips on presenting an engaging you! Welcome back to 2nd Act TV. We’re continuing our conversation with Sandy Weiner, Sandy welcome back ! Thanks!

In our first two segments we’ve covered you know how to choose the right site and lots of great information on pictures. Next is what do we put out there about ourselves? What do we write? I know there’s a big issue with just being honest and sincere. Yeah, so first of all don’t lie.

Baby Boomer Dating Tips!!! Writing Great Online Dating Profiles For Women!!! Dating Profiles

I know a lot of people lie about their age. And so there’s the jury’s out on this one. I don’t advocate for lying about anything!

Some people do it for search purposes and so if you do that then be honest in your profile and say, you know, my, you know, maybe my biological age of my physical age or not the same, you know and so I you know I’m four years younger or older, whatever it is. The other thing is you don’t want to list a whole bunch of adjectives. And this is one of the biggest problems. So I’m attractive, I’m young, I’m this, I’m young at heart, I love you know walks on the beach, love you know the little black dress and the pair of jeans just as comfortable, like everybody says the same freaking thing and there are cliches. They don’t tell anything, even saying I’m creative?

I don’t know what that means to you because I don’t know you. So if you’re going to take the five adjectives that describe you write them down and then tell a little story about each one. So like a one-line story. How are you creative?

So I love painting furniture in a whimsical, in whimsical patterns because I’m very playful, you know something like that. Now you’re describing how you’re creative. And another way I’m creative is I like to bake crazy cakes for people’s birthdays. So now you’re showing not only do you like to bake but also you like to give people something, you like to celebrate people.

So you use the word “because” you know the word because will tell people about your values, about your heart. The reason why you do something is really important. So two people can like to travel but one likes to travel off the beaten path and go crazy no plans. Another one is regimented and will only go on, you know, organized tours and you know stuff like that, or five-star hotels and other one will rough it would go camping.

It tells a lot about who you are. Keep it positive. Keep it, keep a little mystery because you want somebody to ask questions. A little provocative, a little flirty, and then leave a call to action at the end. You know, if this resonates for you I’d love to hear from you, and can’t wait to hear your voice.

So that’s the essay, and and besides the essay there are other things to fill out. So answer as many questions as you can. OK Cupid has like hundreds and hundreds of questions, the more you answer the better you’re gonna match with somebody. Also geographically open up your preferences as much as you can wherever you can.

Know your must-haves, know what you absolutely will not compromise on, do not ever compromise on those things, but everything else should be flexible. You know, and I see people just narrowing down their opportunities because they’re so inflexible about the wrong things. So, so geography. Height, you know please don’t just look for six foot tall men, I mean this is this is one of the biggest disservices we can do to men is to look for one type, because there are a lot of men who are you know five-foot-six who are amazing men and when you’re in bed and you’re horizontal it doesn’t matter how tall you are.

That’s that’s very true, exactly, one of the things that I know in terms of again writing that I just thought about when you were talking that could turn me off is if there were lots of spelling errors or grammatical errors. Yeah check your spelling, yup. So I that was like no, you either are not paying attention this doesn’t mean anything to you, or you really you know, you’re not somebody I want to meet. I mean I value, you know, for me personally I value education.

Right so I will say it just you know that there are people who have learning issues, who are really really smart and can’t write. And you gotta, you gotta cut some slack to men, men have to cut slack to women, I mean we tend to write each other off very very quickly. So if you did get in touch with a man and found that he is illiterate, then you write him off, but I have seen many many bright people who just can’t spell. I agree with you, that’s why, I guess my point was don’t let that throw you out to somebody like me who does pay attention when it, when it necessarily doesn’t have to! Yeah.

It’s an easy fix, I thought. Yeah be careful, I mean on your end, be careful for sure. I mean I go over whatever I write a hundred times, you know, it’s just every word matters.

So you want you want to be memorable and you want to be fun, you want to bring out the good stuff you know. As a woman your warmth is going to matter to a man, not your list or resume of all your achievements. I mean he may be impressed but it’s not going to make compile in love with you. We have to stop doing that that’s actually one of the hardest things for women at this age is to stop talking about all the things we’ve accomplished, because we’re pretty amazing, you know we are you know kick-ass amazing women, right!

Gosh darn it, and they’re going to know it! But a man is going to fall in love with your heart, he’s going to fall in love with you because you provide a safe space for him to open up to reveal his emotions because he can’t do that with men. That’s great advice.

Sandy and that brings actually to our next segment, for which I want to hold you over one more time and talk about how to write, how to communicate once, you know, you’re out there, you start to communicate and what to do, you know, how to make that effective. So let’s close this segment out. Thank you again, we will link to your information and we’ll see you on the next episode of 2nd Act TV. Thanks so much for watching. Right here’s another post I think you might enjoy!

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