Are First Impressions Spot on? | {THE AND} Kelsey & Nick

Are First Impressions Spot on? | {THE AND} Kelsey & Nick Make Your Man Happy

(laughs) Oh boy. All right. So choose five words to describe what you think having sex would be like with me. Oh, what?! (laughing) Okay…

Five words. Well we’re twenty-one so… we can just… go for it. (laughs) Um… Fun, different, new, exciting, and adventurous. Adventurous…

What does adventurous invoke? I’d say adventurous because you seem like, the kind of guy to say, ”look, nobody’s here, let’s do what we need to do.” I mean, I could see just, you know. Going out on a whim and just …you know. So yeah. Why would you say different?

Uh… ‘Cause I’ve never been with anyone outside of my race. Oh… Yeah… K: I mean, not that it should be different N: Yeah. but it– it would be different for me.

N: It’s different, yeah. K: Yeah. N: I’m, yeah– K: Yeah, it’s just different.

I’m the same way. K: Yeah. N: It would definitely be different. Yeah, for sure.

Okay? This is so weird. What do you think I think is my sexiest quality? N: Wow, that’s a hard one. K: Yeah What do I think that you– What do I think that you think is your sexiest quality.

Yeah. Hmm… Maybe just your… confidence?

Maybe? Just because it’s– K: You’re right. N: Yeah?

K: Yeah, you’re right! N: Wooh! K: You’re right! N: Really?! K: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

N: Interesting! K: Yeah! N:Yeah! Just because I– You just have like… a vibe that you give out that’s just like, you’re very comfortable with yourself– K: Yeah! and you’re very like… — and I feel like that could be something that you could definitely use to embrace like, your sexuality and stuff. K: Yeah And that’s something that could be like, huge for… you know, a lot of things.

Yeah, All right, what does my style say about me? Ah… it says that you’re very laid-back, uh, I feel like… you can be an artist or something like that? Well, your hair’s done pretty well. It’s not like it’s, messy or anything like that. So, yeah.

You’re– you’re put together. K: You’re pretty put together. N: Thank you. But you– it says that your sense– that you’re an artist. I feel like, yeah.

Yeah, I mean– that’s interesting. N: What wait– why– what like, K: (laughs) Is there something specific that like, points you that way? Um… the colors? You’re pretty just, uh… solid. (laughs) Thank you.

Hmm… your sleeves are rolled up? Your shoes.. they look like you’ve been you know, around just a little bit. (laughs) But yeah, that’s pretty much it. That’s what I’ve noticed about you, yeah. Cool!

Oh, why do you think I’m single? (laughs) I think that you’re single… Be nice. (laughs) No I think that you’re single right now because– it seems that you have like, dealt with some shit before. And like it seems like you’ve gone through some crap.

And you’re kinda at the point in your life where N: you’re trying to figure out where you’re going. K: Yeah. You’re trying to figure out– ‘Cause you feel like you’re lagging behind. You’re like I gotta like– What’s going on with me? I feel like there’s just– priorities are different.

It seems like you just have like, N: a lot going on. K: Yeah. And you’re trying to do that, and it’s not like, you know, N: ”I need to be in a relationship,” it’s like.

K: Yeah Yeah, you’re so right. Second time, like, you– you got it. Got it?

That’s it. Phew! Next question. What would your last partner warn me about you, if we were to be in a relationship?

I can handle anything– no, I’m just kidding. (laughs) My la– I um– So my last partner would probably tell you that, I’m horrible at communicating with– Hmm in terms of like, how I’m feeling. And like, my emotions. Um, we had a like– a big issue… where like, she was very sensitive, and like so in touch with her feelings. And I was just like, N:”I don’t know what I’m feeling,” K: Yeah! ”What am I supposed to do?” I’m just like, gonna like, going like– I just go with it. N: And it’s like, I go with it for too far.

K: Yeah. And like, it was an issue that we had. So she would probably warn you about that. And also probably warn you, um… about how incredibly obnoxious I can be in public. Uh huh.

N: She was always having to like– K: tame you? N: tame me. K: (laughs) Like, ”don’t–” like, ”do that here! That’s weird.” Like, ” just chill out,” stuff like that.

Um, so yeah. So um– yeah, those are probably two. Do you feel like, she was overreacting?

Or do you honestly feel like you’re obnoxious sometimes? N: Oh, I’m obnoxious sometimes. K: Oh okay.

N: I’m definitely obnoxious sometimes– K: Okay, okay. most of the time. Um, but– N: yeah no she was not overreacting. K: (laughs) I don’t think she was overreacting.

K: She was telling the truth about that one. N: I– no (laughs) If we had a relationship, what do you see me doing that would end it? Not communicating. Oooh ‘Cause I’m working on mine. N: ‘Cause you’re on your way up K: (laughs) N: And I’m still on the ground floor.

Yup. K: (laughs) K: No, I didn’t mean it what way! N: (laughs) K: But um– N: No, it’s– Uh, yeah.

I’m– I K: That’s something that I’m working on. N: Hm. So I feel like if I’m working towards it, K: and you’re not helping me work towards it, N: Hm, yeah. Or, we’re not working together, K: then that will definitely… N: Yeah K: Yeah, have me just like…

N: That’s– yeah. Especially for both, at that like– N: weird spot where we’re working on it. K: Yeah. N: Yeah, that’s– K: Yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah. N: Your– I like your answer better.

Um, do you think that if you saw me at a bar you would approach me? If you were next to me while I was getting a drink, I’d probably say, ”hey” or something like that. But yeah, but– I wouldn’t like, come up to you and say, K: ”hi, my name is Kelsey. What’s your name?” N: Yeah K: Yeah N: Yeah K: That’s…

N: Yeah, scary. N:Yeah, K: Yeah, Well that’s, I mean– I’m also not the kind of guy to just like N: walk up and be like, ”hey, let’s talk.” K: (laughs) I’m not like– that’s not really my thing. But um…

How would you react if I like came– if I approached you? I would talk to you! N: Yeah?

(laughs) Oh boy. All right. So choose five words to describe what you think having sex would be like with me. Oh, what?! (laughing) Okay…

Five words. Well we’re twenty-one so… we can just… go for it. (laughs) Um… Fun, different, new, exciting, and adventurous. Adventurous…

What does adventurous invoke? I’d say adventurous because you seem like, the kind of guy to say, ”look, nobody’s here, let’s do what we need to do.” I mean, I could see just, you know. Going out on a whim and just …you know. So yeah. Why would you say different?

Uh… ‘Cause I’ve never been with anyone outside of my race. Oh… Yeah… K: I mean, not that it should be different N: Yeah. but it– it would be different for me.

N: It’s different, yeah. K: Yeah. N: I’m, yeah– K: Yeah, it’s just different.

I’m the same way. K: Yeah. N: It would definitely be different. Yeah, for sure.

Are First Impressions Spot on? | {THE AND} Kelsey & Nick in a Relationship

Okay? This is so weird. What do you think I think is my sexiest quality? N: Wow, that’s a hard one. K: Yeah What do I think that you– What do I think that you think is your sexiest quality.

Yeah. Hmm… Maybe just your… confidence?

Maybe? Just because it’s– K: You’re right. N: Yeah?

K: Yeah, you’re right! N: Wooh! K: You’re right! N: Really?! K: Yeah yeah yeah yeah.

N: Interesting! K: Yeah! N:Yeah! Just because I– You just have like… a vibe that you give out that’s just like, you’re very comfortable with yourself– K: Yeah! and you’re very like… — and I feel like that could be something that you could definitely use to embrace like, your sexuality and stuff. K: Yeah And that’s something that could be like, huge for… you know, a lot of things.

Yeah, All right, what does my style say about me? Ah… it says that you’re very laid-back, uh, I feel like… you can be an artist or something like that? Well, your hair’s done pretty well. It’s not like it’s, messy or anything like that. So, yeah.

You’re– you’re put together. K: You’re pretty put together. N: Thank you. But you– it says that your sense– that you’re an artist. I feel like, yeah.

Yeah, I mean– that’s interesting. N: What wait– why– what like, K: (laughs) Is there something specific that like, points you that way? Um… the colors? You’re pretty just, uh… solid. (laughs) Thank you.

Hmm… your sleeves are rolled up? Your shoes.. they look like you’ve been you know, around just a little bit. (laughs) But yeah, that’s pretty much it. That’s what I’ve noticed about you, yeah. Cool!

Oh, why do you think I’m single? (laughs) I think that you’re single… Be nice. (laughs) No I think that you’re single right now because– it seems that you have like, dealt with some shit before. And like it seems like you’ve gone through some crap.

And you’re kinda at the point in your life where N: you’re trying to figure out where you’re going. K: Yeah. You’re trying to figure out– ‘Cause you feel like you’re lagging behind. You’re like I gotta like– What’s going on with me? I feel like there’s just– priorities are different.

It seems like you just have like, N: a lot going on. K: Yeah. And you’re trying to do that, and it’s not like, you know, N: ”I need to be in a relationship,” it’s like.

K: Yeah Yeah, you’re so right. Second time, like, you– you got it. Got it?

That’s it. Phew! Next question. What would your last partner warn me about you, if we were to be in a relationship?

I can handle anything– no, I’m just kidding. (laughs) My la– I um– So my last partner would probably tell you that, I’m horrible at communicating with– Hmm in terms of like, how I’m feeling. And like, my emotions. Um, we had a like– a big issue… where like, she was very sensitive, and like so in touch with her feelings. And I was just like, N:”I don’t know what I’m feeling,” K: Yeah! ”What am I supposed to do?” I’m just like, gonna like, going like– I just go with it. N: And it’s like, I go with it for too far.

K: Yeah. And like, it was an issue that we had. So she would probably warn you about that. And also probably warn you, um… about how incredibly obnoxious I can be in public. Uh huh.

N: She was always having to like– K: tame you? N: tame me. K: (laughs) Like, ”don’t–” like, ”do that here! That’s weird.” Like, ” just chill out,” stuff like that.

Um, so yeah. So um– yeah, those are probably two. Do you feel like, she was overreacting?

Or do you honestly feel like you’re obnoxious sometimes? N: Oh, I’m obnoxious sometimes. K: Oh okay.

N: I’m definitely obnoxious sometimes– K: Okay, okay. most of the time. Um, but– N: yeah no she was not overreacting. K: (laughs) I don’t think she was overreacting.

K: She was telling the truth about that one. N: I– no (laughs) If we had a relationship, what do you see me doing that would end it? Not communicating. Oooh ‘Cause I’m working on mine. N: ‘Cause you’re on your way up K: (laughs) N: And I’m still on the ground floor.

Yup. K: (laughs) K: No, I didn’t mean it what way! N: (laughs) K: But um– N: No, it’s– Uh, yeah.

I’m– I K: That’s something that I’m working on. N: Hm. So I feel like if I’m working towards it, K: and you’re not helping me work towards it, N: Hm, yeah. Or, we’re not working together, K: then that will definitely… N: Yeah K: Yeah, have me just like…

N: That’s– yeah. Especially for both, at that like– N: weird spot where we’re working on it. K: Yeah. N: Yeah, that’s– K: Yeah, yeah yeah yeah yeah. N: Your– I like your answer better.

Um, do you think that if you saw me at a bar you would approach me? If you were next to me while I was getting a drink, I’d probably say, ”hey” or something like that. But yeah, but– I wouldn’t like, come up to you and say, K: ”hi, my name is Kelsey. What’s your name?” N: Yeah K: Yeah N: Yeah K: That’s…

N: Yeah, scary. N:Yeah, K: Yeah, Well that’s, I mean– I’m also not the kind of guy to just like N: walk up and be like, ”hey, let’s talk.” K: (laughs) I’m not like– that’s not really my thing. But um…

How would you react if I like came– if I approached you? I would talk to you! N: Yeah?

K: Yeah! K: I’m– I’m cool. Like I’m not– N: (laughs) Especially if I’m… intoxicated. Like I’m having a good time.

There’s nothing wrong with like, anybody coming up to me and having a good conversation. Um, so what about– ’cause I know you– you’ve brought up earlier the difference of like, race and stuff. Uh huh. Would it be intimidating for me to approach you being like, never been with– you know, a White guy or whatever?

Nope! It wouldn’t be intimidating? Nope! K: It’s just different.

N: It’s just different. Yeah, it’s just different. N: Cool! K: I’m not– like that at all.

All right. My question– my last question. Last card. Wow.

Do you feel chemistry? Ooooh, do I feel chemistry? That was a good last one! Good one!

That’s a good like wrap-up question! Yeah! Yeah. I– I do! I feel like we…

N: are both very comfortable with each other. K: Yeah! N: I feel like, we can talk pretty easily with each other.

K: Yeah. And I think that there’s definitely like… there has to be something– some chemistry if like– for us to have such a fluid conversation. Yeah.

Um, what do you think? I think so, for sure! N: Yeah? K: Yeah now that– That you could just look at me and.. see or feel certain things about me and it’s the actual truth– That’s kind of scaring me! I usually can’t like– that’s– N: I have a bad like, ability to judge things.

K: Really?! So like, that’s kinda like– yeah. Weirding me out a bit. K: Yeah, I mean I’m a good people reader. N: Yeah, I can tell.

But, for you to read me… it’s just super weird. ‘Cause I’m really like– N: Yeah! K: Yeah. N: Wow! K: But yeah! I feel… that was– that was an easy last question!

Pshh! Ha! Pfff! Give us more! (laughs)

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