How to Deal with a Sexless Marriage or Relationship

How to Deal with a Sexless Marriage or Relationship Relationships

How to deal with a sexless marriage. Just like all of my other posts, we’re not talking about superficial things here, we’re going in-depth on this one. The majority of people in our society have accepted that over a period of time marriages, relationships lose their spark, lose their sexual flair. This simply doesn’t have to be the truth. What most people do is they turn to things like different sexual positions, they buy books on this stuff, they go to porn shops and porn sites and they try to stimulate their mind through visual stuff or they buy sexual toys.

There’s an adult store by my house. It’s a huge store and it has a huge sign out front that says on it “all of the essentials for lovers”. There is nothing essential about disconnected posts of people having sex or plastic rubber toys that is essential to the sex life of lovers.

Nothing! So when people turn to these other things to stimulate their sex life like porn, and sex toys, and different positions, and maybe other partners, what we typically find is that it doesn’t serve its purpose; or its short-lived. It’s superficial.

It’s not sustainable. The best-case scenario is that we realize through the exploration of those things that that’s not it, that’s not where the answer lies and it makes us delve deeper into a connection with one another and that can reignite the sex life in a much more sustainable manner. So if all of these things that are presented to us aren’t the answer, what is?

Are you ready? Deep, profound, authentic, inhibited connection on a heart, on a soul level with the other person. A clearing of all of the things in between us that are blocking connection. A focus on one another.

Soft, and deep, and rich, and passionate affection. A demonstration of a commitment to exploring the deeper levels of connection with one another. I’m sure that some of these things aren’t what you were expecting to hear, or that maybe some of you don’t want to hear, but when we open up our hearts fully to another person, when two people come together and their hearts are fully open, everything within them is unveiled to the other person, they both feel safe together because there’s a transparency – my internal world is completely open and available to you and you know that you are safe unveiling the deepest recesses of your being to me – and we bring in affection… When we start to explore that space, and really merge with that space, what happens is a merging.

We begin to merge into one being in a state of ecstasy as the sexual energy begins to creep in.We can actually experience a singular state of consciousness, of awareness, to where I can feel everything that you’re feeling and you can feel everything that I’m feeling even though we don’t have each other’s anatomy. We get to the point where we don’t know who’s stimulating who because it’s like there’s one person, one consciousness in two separate bodies. This is sexual alchemy.

This is mystical love . This is the highest form of sexuality. From this space of authentic connection, we reach states, literally states of ecstasy and bliss and orgasmic pleasure that can never get old. The way that people are trying to stimulate sex in their romantic relationships is through the mind, and the mind is never satisfied.

The mind always needs something new, so we need to go to the soul level, where the heart and the soul just want to connect and be one, and once we learn how to reach that space, we can do it fully clothed. Matter of fact, I’m gonna tell you something that you might not believe. You have the ability to reach states of pleasure and ecstasy fully clothed that exceeds what the majority of people on this planet call good sex – I promise you!

This is not a plug, but I have worked with a large group of people with a wide variety of sexual backgrounds, from couples that have been together for decades, to people that have been in the adult film industry, to nymphomaniacs, and I promise you that the level of pleasure, and bliss, and ecstasy that is possible, exceeds what most people are calling great sex. I call it sacred sex or spiritual sex. That’s the answer . That’s the key. If you’re following the crowds, the collective group of people on this planet trying to revitalize your sex life, or find pleasure in a sexual space, you’re not gonna really find what you’re looking for – you need to go deep, just like anything in life.

It begins with connecting authentically, transparently. It begins with intimacy, true intimacy. Most people who are making love aren’t even experiencing true intimacy. There’s all types of things in the background or their mind that they are withholding from themselves that they have not healed yet and withholding from their partner and when there’s things in that space, in the background, there’s not a full clear line of connection.

With true, deep, authentic intimacy we clear all of those things up and we reach a pure state of bliss. I’m gonna share something with you that you might find interesting. Back in the day I used to take ecstasy from time to time. Yes, MDMA, the drug that was originally prescribed to couples to help increase intimacy and it’s now known as Molly that so many people are taking.

It turned into the rave drug. The height, the peak of that high is what is called rolling. They call it rolling because your eyes start rolling in the back of your head in an ecstatic state of bliss where you’re just uncontrollably pulsating in ecstasy – in orgasmic ecstasy with universe, with yourself, with everything – and that feeling never gets old!

What does get old is the side effects, the coming down off of that drug. So why am i bringing this up? Because through sacred sexuality, through spiritual sexual practices, we have the ability to naturally reach those states. I tell you that because I’ve taken ecstasy and I’ve experienced the high of what that drug has to offer, and I have experienced what the high of natural, spiritual sex has to offer, and they’re equal -except for one is natural and once we learn how to do this practice we can do it all day long, even if we are driving in a car touching hands with our lover, with our partner. You can reach such heightened states of pleasure and ecstasy while driving and just touching fingertips with your partner that you need to pull over to the side of the road because it’s too intense for you to feel that and drive it the same.

I’m I’m talking some next-level stuff here! But it’s all real and it’s right in front of you! And available to you as long as you’re willing to do the work. The work means opening up to yourself first, delving into deeper connection with yourself.

The beginning stage of entering into these practices with another person is couples meditation. Meditating, quieting the mind, getting in tune with the deeper recesses and levels of our being. Opening up our hearts – and there’s a free couples meditation post that I put on my YouTube channel for you to learn how to do this practice – so learn it! Okay, okay, I’m gonna relax a little. It’s just that this topic is so rich to me.

I’m going to tell you a few of the benefits that you get from spiritual or sacred sex. One, pleasure beyond anything that you have ever experienced before. Two, sustainable intimacy and connection. Three, more authentic communication.

Four, peace and tranquility. Five, an elevation of consciousness and expansion of awareness – and the list goes on, and on, and on. Many people bring it to our attention that we collectively are uneducated in the area of finance, of even balancing our checkbook, of understanding the stock market and our investments.

How to deal with a sexless marriage. Just like all of my other posts, we’re not talking about superficial things here, we’re going in-depth on this one. The majority of people in our society have accepted that over a period of time marriages, relationships lose their spark, lose their sexual flair. This simply doesn’t have to be the truth. What most people do is they turn to things like different sexual positions, they buy books on this stuff, they go to porn shops and porn sites and they try to stimulate their mind through visual stuff or they buy sexual toys.

There’s an adult store by my house. It’s a huge store and it has a huge sign out front that says on it “all of the essentials for lovers”. There is nothing essential about disconnected posts of people having sex or plastic rubber toys that is essential to the sex life of lovers.

Nothing! So when people turn to these other things to stimulate their sex life like porn, and sex toys, and different positions, and maybe other partners, what we typically find is that it doesn’t serve its purpose; or its short-lived. It’s superficial.

It’s not sustainable. The best-case scenario is that we realize through the exploration of those things that that’s not it, that’s not where the answer lies and it makes us delve deeper into a connection with one another and that can reignite the sex life in a much more sustainable manner. So if all of these things that are presented to us aren’t the answer, what is?

Are you ready? Deep, profound, authentic, inhibited connection on a heart, on a soul level with the other person. A clearing of all of the things in between us that are blocking connection. A focus on one another.

Soft, and deep, and rich, and passionate affection. A demonstration of a commitment to exploring the deeper levels of connection with one another. I’m sure that some of these things aren’t what you were expecting to hear, or that maybe some of you don’t want to hear, but when we open up our hearts fully to another person, when two people come together and their hearts are fully open, everything within them is unveiled to the other person, they both feel safe together because there’s a transparency – my internal world is completely open and available to you and you know that you are safe unveiling the deepest recesses of your being to me – and we bring in affection… When we start to explore that space, and really merge with that space, what happens is a merging.

We begin to merge into one being in a state of ecstasy as the sexual energy begins to creep in.We can actually experience a singular state of consciousness, of awareness, to where I can feel everything that you’re feeling and you can feel everything that I’m feeling even though we don’t have each other’s anatomy. We get to the point where we don’t know who’s stimulating who because it’s like there’s one person, one consciousness in two separate bodies. This is sexual alchemy.

This is mystical love . This is the highest form of sexuality. From this space of authentic connection, we reach states, literally states of ecstasy and bliss and orgasmic pleasure that can never get old. The way that people are trying to stimulate sex in their romantic relationships is through the mind, and the mind is never satisfied.

The mind always needs something new, so we need to go to the soul level, where the heart and the soul just want to connect and be one, and once we learn how to reach that space, we can do it fully clothed. Matter of fact, I’m gonna tell you something that you might not believe. You have the ability to reach states of pleasure and ecstasy fully clothed that exceeds what the majority of people on this planet call good sex – I promise you!

This is not a plug, but I have worked with a large group of people with a wide variety of sexual backgrounds, from couples that have been together for decades, to people that have been in the adult film industry, to nymphomaniacs, and I promise you that the level of pleasure, and bliss, and ecstasy that is possible, exceeds what most people are calling great sex. I call it sacred sex or spiritual sex. That’s the answer . That’s the key. If you’re following the crowds, the collective group of people on this planet trying to revitalize your sex life, or find pleasure in a sexual space, you’re not gonna really find what you’re looking for – you need to go deep, just like anything in life.

It begins with connecting authentically, transparently. It begins with intimacy, true intimacy. Most people who are making love aren’t even experiencing true intimacy. There’s all types of things in the background or their mind that they are withholding from themselves that they have not healed yet and withholding from their partner and when there’s things in that space, in the background, there’s not a full clear line of connection.

With true, deep, authentic intimacy we clear all of those things up and we reach a pure state of bliss. I’m gonna share something with you that you might find interesting. Back in the day I used to take ecstasy from time to time. Yes, MDMA, the drug that was originally prescribed to couples to help increase intimacy and it’s now known as Molly that so many people are taking.

It turned into the rave drug. The height, the peak of that high is what is called rolling. They call it rolling because your eyes start rolling in the back of your head in an ecstatic state of bliss where you’re just uncontrollably pulsating in ecstasy – in orgasmic ecstasy with universe, with yourself, with everything – and that feeling never gets old!

What does get old is the side effects, the coming down off of that drug. So why am i bringing this up? Because through sacred sexuality, through spiritual sexual practices, we have the ability to naturally reach those states. I tell you that because I’ve taken ecstasy and I’ve experienced the high of what that drug has to offer, and I have experienced what the high of natural, spiritual sex has to offer, and they’re equal -except for one is natural and once we learn how to do this practice we can do it all day long, even if we are driving in a car touching hands with our lover, with our partner. You can reach such heightened states of pleasure and ecstasy while driving and just touching fingertips with your partner that you need to pull over to the side of the road because it’s too intense for you to feel that and drive it the same.

I’m I’m talking some next-level stuff here! But it’s all real and it’s right in front of you! And available to you as long as you’re willing to do the work. The work means opening up to yourself first, delving into deeper connection with yourself.

The beginning stage of entering into these practices with another person is couples meditation. Meditating, quieting the mind, getting in tune with the deeper recesses and levels of our being. Opening up our hearts – and there’s a free couples meditation post that I put on my YouTube channel for you to learn how to do this practice – so learn it! Okay, okay, I’m gonna relax a little. It’s just that this topic is so rich to me.

I’m going to tell you a few of the benefits that you get from spiritual or sacred sex. One, pleasure beyond anything that you have ever experienced before. Two, sustainable intimacy and connection. Three, more authentic communication.

Four, peace and tranquility. Five, an elevation of consciousness and expansion of awareness – and the list goes on, and on, and on. Many people bring it to our attention that we collectively are uneducated in the area of finance, of even balancing our checkbook, of understanding the stock market and our investments.

What is a 401K? But we are even more under-educated in the art of lovemaking, in the world of sex. So how do you deal with a sexless marriage? Number one, you begin to tap more deeply into connection with yourself. Number two, you begin to learn practices that help bring your partner into that space as well – like couples meditation.

Number three, you begin to remove all of the blockages that you have within yourself from yourself, and then remove all of the blockages that you and your partner have from one another. Once you have that clear line of connection and communication, the next step is to begin to delve into sacred or spiritual sex. And from there you continue to explore until you reach a singular point of awareness, of consciousness with your partner and you touch the heavens. Your mind, your body, your soul explode into an unexplainable state of bliss. You experience wholeness and nothingness, an intense pleasure and complete peace all at the same time.

You step into the world of true magic…. And that’s how you deal with a sexless marriage or relationship

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